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We try to anticipate questions or concerns you might have about our party's and provide the answers here. If you need additional information please contact us.


I/we have never been to a Lifestyle party, nervous would be an under statement.

Everyone is a newbie, we drove by our first party five times before we went in. Once inside, we were in awe and never looked back.


We've heard there are only Male Couples at your party, is this true?

No, it's not true. We are 100% sure you've heard this from people that have never been to one of our party's. The truth is, the Couples that come to our party are Male & Female couples, Husbands & Wives, Boyfriends & Girlfriends. They come to our parties so they can play the way they like, in the open and not behind closed doors.


Will anyone talk to me/us?

A host will take you and introduce you to every person that is there at the time you walk in the door. And our regulars will introduce you as the night goes on, why, because they are friendly like that.


Will I/we be shown the house?

As the host is introducing you to people they will also be going over the play areas and the house rules.


Does everyone look like a supermodel?

They are the same people you see everyday at the store, the bank, the ball game, the bar and so on.


I'm a single male and i'm straight, can i come to the party?

NO. All single males must be at the very least Bi-Curious.


I'm a straight male with a girlfriend/wife, can i come to the party?

Yes. Many women enjoy watching M-M contact, and many straight males enjoy being pegged by their females, the fantasy of the gf/wife "taking her man and owning him" and having people watch, is a strong and very sexy one.


How many people come to the party?

This is a tricky question. We limit the single men to 10. We do not limit couples, so this number will move around, but it would be safe to say 30 couples.


What is the age of your guest?

Again, another tricky question. 25 to 55 would be a safe range.


Are we likely to see play in the open or does most of it take place privately?

We have no doors going into our rooms. So you will see play in the open. And yes it's a regular occurrence.


If we meet someone we want to play with, are there private areas to use there?

The downstairs play room has three beds and the room is for couples and singles to use. The upstairs has a loft bed that couples and singles can use. The upstairs also has a room with five beds, lights are turned almost off, and this room is for couples only. Couples can bring a single in there, but the single must stay with the couple that let him in and must leave when the couple leaves. We believe the upstairs room would work for enjoying more sensual intimacy with your playmates. Out of the five beds in the room, there are two on the floor, up against the wall, and has a curtain for semi privacy.


I'm a single male, can I go into any room?

There are three play rooms. The only play room you CANNOT go in, is the Couples Only Room Upstairs, unless you are invited by a couple, if you are invited, then you MUST stay with that couple and LEAVE when the couple leaves. This room is guarded by Karen's Golden Chain, DO NOT Cross the Chain unescorted and univited, even if the chain is not put back up by a couple eager to play, you will not be given a second chance.


Why are you no longer taking new single forms from males.

We have a large approved male list, and with only letting in 10 single males, it's not fair to increase it any longer.


FAQ page is a work in progress, or as our Canadian friends say, progress. There will be more to come.

We add more as questions come our way, so please keep asking.